Showing posts with label Gurbani-based. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Gurbani-based. Show all posts

August 22, 2007

Anger monitoring - a spiritual approach .. ( as per gurbani)



I prayed sincerely to satguru to enlighten me. As per inspiration received, I perused the shabad of guru maharaj. More I contemplated over it, more helpful it proved. And lo later on, with satguru’s grace, I have been able to control anger. It had proved to be panacea for me. I want to share my perception.

The cause of anger is our attitude and perception of situation. We are irritated because we forget that

# Same God is in each and every heart

# Every person is acting as per wish of GOD only

# Nothing is mine and thine. Everything belongs to HIM only. We are
using/relishing the belongings as per HIS will only

# We are befooled by emotions, which always mislead us

# We are frustrated because we craved for materialistic wealth, pride,
honour etc. and whenever our expectation was not fulfilled, that caused irritation. We forget that if we get rid of these cravings and crave for waheguru’s blessings through naam simran, we will not be after maya but all worldly pleasures will be after us.

Now think

# When we are in pride, our mind always wander aimlessly. When we are humble, we recognize God everywhere. How can and how can we afford to be angry with our LORD? We should be humble, see HIM in all and enjoy the bliss gifted by satguru by providing us Guidance. HUMILITY is always rewarding.

# Nothing is yours. Everything is of God. Nothing and nobody is bad. Donot judge others. You donot have that right. If you treat others as bad persons, others will treat you same way. Vicious cycle will start. Why donot have positive attitude and have love towards others? It will again have multiplying factor and you will be loved, helped and co-operated by others.

# More emotions you have, deeper is trapping of rebirths. Why not to concentrate on naam simran and get rid of these vicious cycles?
Till the “mine and thine” is deeply engraved in your subconscious
mind, emotions will not leave you (root cause of anger). Why not
to seek divine help in the matter by rendering humble prayer (ardas)?

# Why not to understand that pride, power, materialistic
achievements, ego are not real victory. It is defeat. Real victory is
realization, blessings of God and not earthly victory. This is
obtained by grace of satguru, who guides us that God is cause of
causes and contemplation on HIS naam is the way out. Why to be
entangled in delusions created by maya and provoking you into
anger?

# Then what to do when anger appears? Seek divine help by prayers
(ardas). Treat the scene as part and parcel of HIS cosmic drama
(leela). Treat the person offending you as puppet in hands of God.
Seek waheguru’s guidance, work out what your duty and role
warrants. Take action honestly and leave everything in hands of
God. Do not be emotional. It weakens you.

I repeatedly, recite relevant shabad, the gift of my satguru. And I am strengthened every time.
The above is my perception only and not literal translation of shabad. I am a person of little wisdom and donot possess authority over the subject. I am still begging mercy from satguru. I beg apology from sadh sangat for my mistakes. If I require rectification, please help me out. I will be obliged. Kindly oblige me by sharing your esteemed opinions. Now original baani, from sri guru granth sahib jee maharaj for your ready reference





August 16, 2007

Sukhmani sahib jee as I perceived





ਤੇਰਾ ਕੀਤਾ ਜਾਤੋ ਨਾਹੀ ਮੈਨੋ ਜੋਗੁ ਕੀਤੋਈ ॥
ਨਿਰਗੁਣਿਆਰੇ ਕੋ ਗੁਣੁ ਨਾਹੀ ਆਪੇ ਤਰਸੁ ਪਇਓਈ ॥
ਮੈ ਤਰਸੁ ਪਇਆ ਮਿਹਰਾਮਤਿ ਹੋਈ ਸਤਿਗੁਰੁ ਸਜਣੁ ਮਿਲਿਆ ॥
ਨਾਨਕ ਨਾਮੁ ਮਿਲੈ ਤਾਂ ਜੀਵਾਂ ਤਨੁ ਮਨੁ ਥੀਵੈ ਹਰਿਆ ॥੧॥
Tera kita jata nahi maino jog kitoi
Main nirgurniare KO gun nahee aape taras paioi
Taras paia mihramat hoi satgur sajan milia
Nanak nam milaia tan jivan tan man dhivai haria
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My satguru had been merciful to me. I never deserved such mercy. It is HIS glory, HIS greatness and HIS mercy that inspired useless person like me to attempt to understand gurbani and to express the perception in this pattern. I never had dreamt of such an outcome nor had I any confidence because I am neither a scholar nor have any command over language. And HE has filled my hirday with bliss bliss and bliss. Main nirguniar see, usne aap kirpa keetee, usde mehar sadka mera man tan haria hua.
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I lack words to express my gratitude towards HIM.
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Again I repeat my humble request to sadh sangat ji. I am a semi-literate person with no command either on language or on knowledge but even then I was inspired to spell out my understanding of sukhmani sahib ji. I seek humble apology from learned persons for shortcomings. I admit I am not a scholar. If I am wrong somewhere, I may be pointed out. I will re-align my understanding by taking those words as hukam of my waheguru jee.

With satguru's blessings and waheguruji's kirpa, following blogs are posted in blog http://sukhmanisahibji.blogspot.com.This blog is copy of last blog therein. The blogs as per inbuilt system are visible in descending order (i.e. first blog at the bottom - the last being at top). But, please, it is my humble suggestion that the blogs may be pursued in following order. As such, the same will be sequence-wise and will be convenient to you too.

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SATGURU RAKHA

How to do simran?

Texts of my 2 emails sent to a cyber friend.

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How to do simran (Part 1)

Email number 1 to an aspirant.

Question is how to do simran?
More you write, less it seems to be. There cannot be comprehensive and conclusive note thereof. Still a view>
What is simran?
Simran is contemplation on glories of God (waheguru) with love and devotion. Guru granth sahibjee has covered complete philosophy of cosmic play. Japjee sahib is its key. It is dhur ki baani. Waheguru’s precious gift to us through dhan dhan satguru Nanak Dev Jee maharaj.
The question was “Kiv sachiaaraa hoeeai kiv kooRai tuTai paal”( as to how false perception inscribed can be removed). And the answer is “Hukam rajhaaee chalNaa naanak likhiaa naal” (to obey HIS orders is the only way out). Second paudi, removes our ego and guides us that HE only is doer. We are able to and we do only what HE wishes. The self-imposed ego is barrier between us and God. What I feel, contemplation on this paudi removes our haume (ego). Without removing ego, simran is very difficult.

Then question was “Phaer ki agai rakhiai jit disai darbaar - Munhaou ki bolan boleeai jit sun dharae piaar”( What offering may be made, what language may be uttered to invoke the gift of His Love?) Mere satguru guided “Amrit vaela sach naaou vadiaaee veechaar”(the best course is to sing his glories in ambrosial hours of early morning). Though one should do simran most of the time, but amritvela is quite blissful.

Only akalpurakh waheguru is to be worshipped. The reflection is to be with love and devotion. And to increase same, one should endeavor to study scriptures, attend kirtan and satsangs, interact with gursikhs, perform seva in gurudwaras and other religious activites. Rehatmaryada should be followed and nitnem paths (with its understanding) should be followed. Sincere study of gurbani motivates and empowers us. Guru maharaj blesses with devotion and blessings of waheguru shower.
The above is my perception only.
Bhul chuk maaf karna jee.

Waheguru rakha.

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How to do simran? (Part 2)

My email number 2 to an aspirant.

You appreciated my answer. Thanks for it. Now keeping in view your sincere interest in spirituality, I want to share my experiences with you.

(1) There is difference between spirituality and religion, though these are inter-related. The purpose of religion is to enhance spirituality through rituals and practice. And the aim of spirituality is to explore inner self to link it with DIVINE. The scriptures, interalia are there to help us. Our guru sahib never guided to personal worshipping. He wanted to treat guru as sri guru granth sahib jee > Gurbani > communication from God that, we lovingly say SHABAD. In fact, the SHABAD, the divine communication had been guru of gurusahib too and we are also expected to follow SHABAD GURU. And satguru helps us, support us. Sri Guru Granth Sahib jee is living God. It is matter of faith. I get direction, inspiration, support, grace, bliss, consolation, God’s communication, when I approach guru sahib in full faith. Because there I get gurbani and then SHABAD(God’s communication). And when we get his blessing, only then we are inspired for spirituality and we get wisdom (SOJHI) to understand the concepts. Jis voh bujhaye soi janey. But let the divine light of spirituality come to you from all sources.
(2) Now the point is Sri guru granth sahib contains complete interpretations of cosmic play of God. More you read, more you ponder, more you reflect, more you exchange views thereof, more meaning inscribe to your mind (hirday). It is not a chapter from educational book, of which we understand meaning and it is enough. Here the gurbani, more you reflect, more spiritual direction you get and God’s blessings are instrumental here, which depends on your sincerity and ego-less-ness. Even interpretations of scholars, sometimes, differ because of different perceptions. WAHEGURU’s blessings are required. It will shower upon you, once you surrender to HIM destroying your ego and depending on his grace. If two different interpretations reach you, donot be surprised. It is beauty of gurbani that every time, you recite same PAATH with devotion, you get new hidden meanings and new sense of bliss. So go on, go on, go on reciting same paath with devotion but
(a) BEFORE STARTING PAATH, pray –O waheguru, mere param pita jeeo –I depend on your grace. I surrender to you as I am aware that on my own, I donot possess capability to understand paath. Please inscribe it in my mind (hirdey). Believe me, there will be lot of difference in your perception.
(b) Though there is no rule, but just to impose self-discipline, it is better to fix a target for paath of a particular portion or any similar activity for 40 days. It brings regularity and self-discipline and ultimately, you get more self-confidence too.
(c) NOW LAST IMPORTANT POINT (My own MPORTANT experience)
One midnight, I was chatting with God, He made me understand this.
The point is to understand gurbani – number one prior ardas (prayer) is required, and number 2 an approach of student is required.
Now what is this approach? That is main idea for which I wanted to communicate with you. I am much benefited by same.
When we are student, we are taught a lesson by teacher – the teacher tells us to remember same by heart – we are asked to do homework – teacher makes us rewrite same – we are told to repeat same loudly in classroom – we are given test and what not. If there could be no tests, who could have bothered to understand as there could not be any necessity to reproduce same later on. WE WERE FORCED TO WRITE SAME IN OUR WORDS ON THE BASIS OF WHAT WE UNDERSTOOD. And it works.
While we read scriptures, we feel contented that we understand translation, so ENOUGH.
NO – BIG ‘NO’.
Please read a shabad (say hukam of day or any other portion) once- twice-thrice and close it and write the gist thereof in your words. This writing itself will constitute the difference as it is student’s approach. Donot bother for grammar. It is between you and God. Before starting, you have already taken HIM in confidence too. Then see HIS blessings.

And you know, my satguru wanted me to write question-answer-formed gist of sukhmani sahib jee. I asked, there had been many commentaries already written. I donot have academic background as I am useless in English. But my satguru guided me – “No, you write for me. You will read – I will listen. And I donot bother for your language”.
Lo I started studying sukhmani sahibjee keenly daily, writing gist, pasting in 19 questions. It took quite long time and in second round it was edited. And blogs were ready.
BUT BELIEVE ME, the bliss and grace I got, more time passed and I am a changed person and my satguru has changed direction of my life.

Conclusion: Paath with devotion is very good, but reflection and expression in own words is WONDERFUL. Please give importance to this aspect.
(3) This entire cosmic drama is created and is being monitored by HIM only. Sri Guru Granth Sahib explains logically this entire cosmic philosophy and provides guidance, support and direction to we people to get across this delusion created by maya. The way out is simran only. Japjee sahib is essence of Sri Guru Granth Sahib ji and Sukhmani Sahib is explanation to Japjee sahib.

THE ABOVE IS MY PERCEPTION ONLY. If I am wrong somewhere, please point out, I will take in right spirit to rectify me (as hukam from HIM only). Bhul chuk maaf karna jee.

Please let me have your reactions.

Remaining in next email.

WAHEGURU RAKHA

March 27, 2007

Har gun gaavat par-upkaar nit

Date 26th March, 2007, Time about 11 AM scene a bus stop in west Delhi.

Harjeet Singh was waiting for his bus. He had to meet his friend outside Gurudwara Bangla Sahib at pre-appointed time. He was blissfully pondering over that day’s hukamnama from Darbar Sahib. He saw that a bus stopped and an old person with a stick in his hands fell down on the road, as his foot must have slipped. Everybody was busy with his own mental schedules and nobody was thinking out to help him. Harjeet Singh could surmise that old person badly required help. Harjeet Singh also had a busy schedule but at that time he recollected first stanza of guru’s hukam.

man tan antar parabh aahee
har gun gaavat par-upkaar nit tis rasnaa kaa mol kichh naahee.
He followed the meaning as >
“Deep within the nucleus of his mind and body, is God.
He continually sings the Glorious Praises of the Lord, and always does good for others; his tongue is priceless.”

He instead of continuing his journey, helped that old person to nearest orthopedist and arranged help for his safe arrival to his home suitably. Timely help could get much relief to that old person and Harjeet Singh earned lot of blessings from old person and waheguru too. He was satisfied that with satguru’s blessings he could follow hukam in right spirit. Both friends met lately and during the return journey they discussed as to why he was so terribly late. He was still in bliss and was re-living those moments when he could sing gurbani and could do good to someone who badly needed it. There was no haume (ego) in his expression and he was forbidding his friend too not to discuss it here and there. That is why I have also changed his name in this blog.

I was very much impressed by his gestures. The persons like me simply read scriptures but this sikh gentleman taught me what is sikhi and how guru’s orders are obeyed.

March 23, 2007

TU DATA DATAAR TERA DITTA KHAVNA

Last time when I went to Gurudwara Bangla Sahib, by Waheguru’s grace, I had opportunity to get prasad in langar. While sitting in pangat, I overheard conversation between two elderly women as they were sitting very close and were speaking somewhat louder. But the conclusion of discussion was quite encouraging. I want to share same.

One lady explained that a practice has been started by her daughter-in-law in their kitchen. It has been instrumental in contributing towards change of environment of home. When we cook something as prasad, it has to have its sanctity. The in-charge of kitchen is particular about hygiene and everything is cooked with devotion and faith. One gets moral pressure to recite waheguru’s name while cooking. Definitely, ordinarily cooked food and items cooked as prasad, there is lot of difference as it carries vibrations respectively. The lady whenever comes to Gurudwara Bangla Sahib, takes AMRIT from gurudwara to her home. The same is kept with full reverence in home. When they cook meal they take special care about cleanliness and sanctity and knead the flour with amrit. Those phulkas are now prasadey. (god’s gift). While cooking they recite waheguru’s name or some shabad. Entire food becomes prasad and carries strong positive vibration of bliss. Everbody accepts same with reverence and food taken by family members is likely to elevate each one. It changes atmosphere of home with more happiness and love among family members.

Tu data datar tera dita khavna.